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[Ep.9] Books That Saved Me Before I got married, I wasn't an adult who liked children. As I had a child, gave birth to a child, and raised a child, I found childcare really difficult. I suffered from severe postpartum depression. Until my first child turned 100 days old, I didn't really think my child was pretty. Books were what saved me and my child. I didn't know what kind of play I should do with my child, and how to fill the time I spent alone with my child, so I just spent each day enduring the time, and books were a really safe and easy tool for me. There were times when I wondered what use it would be to a child who couldn't even read, but I read books to him over and over again. Maybe I did that to endure my depression and survive. Reading books every day I filled my time with my child and we became very close before I knew it. A very strong attachment was formed. Crying and laughing with my child, sharing emotions and joys - As such time piled up, my child grew, and I grew too. —- Now, through my experiences, I feel that I have developed my own views on parenting, and confidence in parenting, and self-esteem for myself as a parent. That is why book parenting saved me. Book parenting made me and my child strong. I will continue to do this with my child. I do not want to do “00 parenting” that expects some visible result or output to others. I just do the parenting of our family that I can do, that I want to do, that my child can do, and that my child wants to do. If there are any mothers who are having a hard time because they started parenting without knowing the way, like I did before, I recommend that you carefully… read a small book today with your child, and start with that. #I hope everyone has a comfortable day today #Book Parenting #육아철학 #놀이육아 #오늘의육아 #만5세 #19년생