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#여름방학일기 #콘수프기록 #맞팔 #Beauty #집에서이발하기 #잡동사니 I've mentioned this before, but my husband says it's a waste of money to go to the hair salon, so he asks me to do it. Is it because it's so hot in the summer, or is it because he just got a haircut? ㅜㅜ Still, he likes it, so I don't know if it's a waste of money or because he likes it, but I do it anyway. My daily life^^ I move my accessories around here and there. One of my favorites, the Kumamon carrier name tag, got ripped off on my last trip. ㅠㅠ It was a shame to throw it away, so it's lying there like a prop, lol. There's a green frog on Kumamon's belly^^ I'll tell you about that green frog later~~ There are many stories of couples who initially thought of being DINKs, couples who ended up like DINKs, and couples who changed their minds^^ This is my third time, and today I'm going to talk about life without children. Really, from the beginning of our marriage until a few years ago? "Are you really not going to have children? Think again. You'll regret it later." I've heard a lot of talk, persuasion, and anger. My friends don't talk about it much, but have you ever heard such things? How can you live like that without children? Hahaha. Then, is a life where you can only live with your partner happy if you have children? I asked them that. I said I think that's how it should be, and I don't think so. First, a couple should love each other, and then if they have children, they should live happily based on that. I think living for a reason is so miserable. Of course, I'd be lying if I said I'm happy every single day, but I don't live for a reason. Being together is what makes us happy, not what others think. Of course, I only focus on the good things about my husband and me. If I had a child who resembled me, haha. It would be really nice. Even now, I still think about having a child. He'd be so pretty and do so many wonderful things for me. He'd help me with my studies. But my husband, who I'm with, is more precious than my unborn child. So, as I get older and reach my 60s and 70s, things like that will come later. People say it's like that even after you're in your 50s, but my husband is in his mid-50s now, and we still don't have that problem. We're doing well together. We travel together, eat delicious food when we want, and do whatever we want. We enjoy a more leisurely life and are less stressed. Since we just have to eat well and live well, I definitely feel less stressed. ㅎ I don't have to clean every day, I don't have to be picky about bad foods, and I don't have to do laundry every day. ㅎㅎㅎㅎㅎㅎㅎ It's a bit of a lazy life. The only downside to being a DINK is the hassle of having to explain things to people in the beginning. I've told them countless times that I have health issues and that I don't have them, until they stop asking. That's the most annoying downside. Everyone is different, but once the kids are all grown up, what's left is the two of us, and the two of us have to depend on each other. Families with kids^^ Families with pets, families with two, and singles. I support you all. As long as you're happy, that's all that matters. As long as you're not hurting others~~ Another long post. I couldn't write everything I wanted to say because it's so long. ㅜㅜ I scribbled it down during class because I had a break.